If an interaction makes you uncomfortable, move to another part of the room or leave when you can. Tell a trusted companion what happened and what you want to do. You can pause the evening before deciding how much of the situation you want to explain.
Look for a host, manager or security staff member and confirm their role if it is unclear. Describe what happened and ask for the help you need, such as ending an interaction or reaching an exit. If the response is unhelpful, seek another staff member or leave when you can.
Keep track of the exits, belongings and transport you need to leave. If you are in immediate danger, contact emergency services. Afterward, decide whether to report the issue through the operator’s published channel. Keep the account factual and include what staff need to understand the incident, while protecting other guests’ private information.
NYC Office of Nightlife party safety tips. The city’s guidance includes planning transport, checking exits and looking out for friends.
