Start with something you want to do: hear an artist, dance, see a performance or catch up with friends. Look for an event that fits that plan. Tell the group which activity interests you and whether you are comfortable spending the evening in a bar. You can share a preference for alcohol-free drinks without explaining your reasons.
Look for alcohol-free options before reserving a table. If a package has a minimum spend or includes drinks, ask which alternatives are available and how they count toward the bill. Menus and packages differ between venues. Save a reply that explains an arrangement your group will rely on.
Being the person who skips alcohol can lead others to assume you will drive or look after the group. Discuss those responsibilities before the evening. Say what you can offer and arrange separate transport where needed. Friends can order what they prefer while respecting each other’s choices.
