Polyamory generally involves openness to multiple romantic relationships with the knowledge and agreement of those involved. Swinging generally refers to consensual sexual experiences with others, often in a social setting. People may combine practices or use different terms. Ask someone how they describe their arrangement when that information becomes relevant to a possible connection.
Let people decide how much of their private life to discuss. If you want to meet again or explore an invitation, ask about the expectations that would affect that plan. Give them your own conditions too. A social meetup, relationship discussion group and lifestyle club offer different ways to meet people, so read the organizer’s description and choose a setting that fits your interest.
APA Division 44 Committee on Consensual Non-monogamy. The committee identifies polyamory and swinging among forms of consensual non-monogamy.
