A queer dance party, fundraiser and neighborhood bar can serve different audiences and purposes. Read the event’s own description before attending. If you are unsure whether it welcomes your participation, ask the host beforehand. Share the event’s stated purpose and expectations when inviting friends.
Use the names and pronouns people share, and let them choose what to say about their identity. Keep photographs and public tags subject to permission. People may be meeting friends, supporting an organizer or spending time in a place where they feel comfortable. Give them room to enjoy the evening on their own terms.
Read any published rules and listen to the host’s directions. If someone says your behaviour is making them uncomfortable, stop and give them space. Ask staff for help with a concern. When an event raises money or invites other support, use the channels the organizer identifies and contribute in a way that suits you.
